Readiness for family life
Thus, dear friends, to solve, or even better, avoid the above and all other family problems, it is extremely important to prepare a person for family life. The readiness of young people to form a family also comes to the attention of family psychology. You can’t do something well without learning how to do it. But what does it mean to prepare for family life? This means that young people should know much more about this life than they do about it, mainly by observing their parents ‘ relationships, which are usually the only example of family life for them. And you and I know that some parents set an extremely negative example for their children. Naturally, if young people live in exemplary families, in which everyone respects each other, in which everyone is happy, then they can not only take an example from their parents, but also need to. But according to my and not only my observations, there are not very many successful families in our society, therefore, in order to get the Apple away from the Apple tree, that is, in order not to make mistakes of their parents, young people should learn all the subtleties of family life in other ways, including through communication with experts on this issue. Then they will prepare for this life properly and create a good, friendly, strong family in which everyone will be happy.
In General, dear readers, a lot of things in your life, including your family life, will depend on your value system. Those people for whom family is important-learn everything they need to know about family and family life, including through the study of family psychology. And those for whom the family is of no value, probably even to these lines did not finish reading. We always pay maximum attention to what is important and valuable for us, so the readiness for family life depends largely on the values that we adhere to. Take a closer look at yourself and other people – see what is important to you and to them, what you and they pay the most attention to. This way you will learn about how ready you and other people, such as your potential spouse, can be for family life.
And to understand what a family is — a good, happy family, and how valuable it can be for you – you need, first, to learn as much as possible about a good family life, from a variety of sources, and secondly, to compare this value with other values, so that you can understand what is best for you. Because only knowing about different values and being able to compare them with each other-you can choose the best for yourself, choose what you really need.