How to organize family leisure correctly
Leisure – a set of activities aimed at satisfying the physical, spiritual and social needs of people in their free time and associated primarily with recreation and entertainment: reading, games, dancing, visiting cultural institutions and mass entertainment, physical education and sports.
Family leisure is a serious matter. It should be planned in advance, discussing the wishes of all family members. Well, if they coincide and the event will be a pleasure for everyone, will strengthen not only the “spirit”, but also the “health” of family members. It is important that the way of life of the family and the way of life of the child are based on the same social and moral principles, and the culture of the family is a moral value. No less important is the culture of health in the family.
At the present stage, the problem of health of the younger generation is one of the most urgent for our society. Health consists of several components: mental, physical, social, and moral. Unfortunately, in the modern world, there is little room for close communication in a wide family circle, and the Successful solution of educational tasks is possible only when the family and other social structures combine their efforts. Cooperation between the school and the family should create comfortable, adequate conditions for the development of students. This is facilitated by additional education programs: drawing circles, dancing, sports…it is Great if the family has common Hobbies, Hobbies, but there are also some types of Hobbies that are interesting for each family member separately, but do not benefit unity and cohesion.
2. Computer games
3. Reading books or magazines
4. Watching TV programs
5. Visiting theaters, museums, exhibitions with friends.
Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to such types of Hobbies that will become a common favorite for both mom and dad, and for children.
In particularly friendly families, even representatives of the older generation, such as grandparents, take part in joint activities. The effectiveness of moral and pedagogical influence is achieved not by pressure on the child, not by events, but by the General harmonious atmosphere of the family. A favorable microclimate in the family is a guarantee of peace of mind, full rest for all family members, which means that they are in a good mood and have a positive attitude to work. The family atmosphere is a kind of “filter” through which all the mental States of a person pass. In some families, this “filter” works flawlessly, helping spouses and children restore mental balance, create a favorable psychological basis for a full sense of the world, entering the social environment. In other families, this “filter” is inactive or has significant defects. In this case, the family atmosphere depresses, prevents a person from feeling the joy of being, overcoming life’s difficulties and stresses. Even 20 years ago, there was no such thing as “child stress”, but today the picture is different. Survey of 150 children of senior preschool age on the topic: “How do you spend your free time with your parents?”it showed that 64% of children spend their evening hours watching TV or computer, 12% – go for walks with their parents, 14% – read books and magazines, and 10% – go to museums and theaters (once a month).
If you want to maintain harmony and mutual understanding with children, you should learn to plan your time rationally today. Plan your day carefully. For example, if you need to do General cleaning, then do it in the morning, and devote the evening to your family. Let your family know a few days in advance that you have plans for everyone, so that everyone is aware and can adjust to your schedule. At the very beginning of the working week, make a plan for joint leisure activities. Be sure to take into account all the features of each person, so that no one is left without attention. In any case, you can not tell the day that you, for example, have already bought theater tickets for everyone. It is necessary to give time to all family members to plan their free time as well, choose a common leisure time by voting. Make it a tradition to spend weekends together with your family. For example, let everyone know that Saturday night is now officially your family night. Warn everyone that no one has anything planned for this time, and that everyone put their business on hold for another day.